Self Fulfilling Prophesy?
By Jennifer Moodie 5/27/2022 “You run/hit/cry like a girl.” “Sit like a lady, only boys sit like that.” “That is so gay.” “Boys/girls don’t ______.” “Be a man.” “You guys seem close. Are you gay?” “Sissy.” “He is feminine/she is masculine.” “You need to work hard at being more masculine/feminine so as to not give the illusion you are gay.” Have you heard any of these quips? I have. And many many more. We are so focused on being masculine and feminine and not giving any illusion that we could be * gasp * gay, that we forget that God created us masculine or feminine by way of us being male or female. This idea that we need to strive hard to be what we were already created to be and that if we don’t do it right, we could be something else is the very argument that the transgender community makes. The belief that we can “put on” or “take off” masculinity and femininity. If a boy has a soft voice, likes to play the piano or sew, and cares how he looks people call him feminine. If...